Nowadays, the market for women’s travel is thriving, with statistics showing that women, more than any other single group, enjoy the pleasures of traveling. Perhaps it’s the result of having been confined to household chores for decades, or perhaps it’s simply due to women also being fed up at having to spend their life in a monotonous office environment day in and day out. Either way, more and more women are discovering the benefits and pleasures of traveling. After all, why shouldn’t women pack their bags and fly away? Whether they choose to explore remote areas of distant lands, or whether they choose to soak up the sun while lying on a beach in the Caribbean, women are letting their hair down, they’re leaving their chores behind, and they’re heading off into the great unknown. Yes that’s right, they’re realizing that there’s so much more to life than simply going to work each day.
Women-only travel has really taken off in the last 15 years, and it’s more popular than ever now. Stressed-out women who have been playing Supermom for years need a break, and realize this is a great way to do it. For at least a week, you really don’t have to take it any more! There are all kinds of women’s vacations you can pick from. What about ziplining in Costa Rica? Sailing a charter yacht in the Greek Islands? Exploring ancient Mayan Ruins in Belize? Or scuba diving in the Virgin Islands? So many fabulous options, and so little vacation time!
So, what is it about women-only travel that makes it so popular? Believe me, there are many reasons why more and more women are choosing women-only travel. For example, you get a break from the kids, you don’t have to deal with inquisitive neighbors and you don’t even have to put up with the incessant nagging of your husband. Have you ever noticed how much husbands can nag you, especially when they’re not getting their own way? Of course you love your husband and your kids but a short break from it all, more often than not leaves you feeling like a new person altogether. Best of all, because you get to meet other likeminded people, you get the chance to make new friends as well.
No, we certainly don’t hate men do we? Hey, I’m the first to admit that having your man close by is usually great but the problem is; go away on holiday together and in all likelihood you’ll both continue fulfilling the same roles as you’ve always done. You’ll find yourself being left with the dishes once again, or even preparing all the food. Fair enough, maybe your husband will be chopping firewood or getting the fire built but that?s exactly what you’re trying to get away from in the first place. On the other hand, when you go away on your own, you’re much more likely to try new things, not to mention the fact you’ll more than like be more adventurous as well.
Of course, competition and support also come into the equation because let’s say you want to learn how to sail. If you try when you’re with your husband, the chances are you’ll feel a little intimidated, especially if he can sail already. This happens when he keeps offering to help, or he keeps on telling you that you’re doing this wrong or that wrong. On the other hand, if you’re with a group of like minded women, you’ll have to learn to do things for yourself and that’s what it’s about; feeling good about yourself being able to learn something new.
Women’s travel tours also offer security, because traveling with a group is safer than traveling on your own. It’s not always easy for single women to travel. Your friends may be coupled up, or they may not have the same interests, budget, or schedule as you have. Women’s travel groups can solve these problems — it’s easier, safer, and a whole lot more fun than going on your own. You get a ready-made trip (just show up!), a group of women to socialize with and share the experience, a knowledgeable tour guide, and some ready-made camaraderie. It takes the work and worry out of planning your vacation, and going on it, too.
Finally, travel is good for the soul. The modern world is full of unhealthy stress, especially for women who try to do it all. YOu try, but it’s just impossible! A great vacation gives you back your sense of perspective, and your sense of fun, too. Travel can open your eyes and your heart, when you meet people whose life situation is very different from yours. It gives you time to connect with others, and to connect with your own inner spirit too. It makes you feel alive, radiant, and happy! Yes, there may be a big stack of e-mail waiting for you when you get home, but it’s worth it for that sense of joy and renewal.
You deserve a break, just as much as others do, and before you start feeling all guilty just remember, everybody needs to time to be alone. Right, you have no excuse so go ahead and book a tour now.
About the author: Deanna Keahey is founder of Adventurous Wench Women’s Travel, a company that specializes in women’s travel tours. Find active women only trips, from river rafting the Rio Grande, to glacier trekking in Patagonia.